Thursday, October 11, 2012

Pregnancy ≠ Me

Lately a lot of concern folks have been asking me about my turn to get pregnant. I don't have the urge to be a mother anytime soon and my maternal instinct have not kicked in. So does that make me a bad mother ? Or a future bad mother ? I already have a grown up son at work and I'm still pretty happy with him. People have office husband / wife, I have an office son and I'm proud of him.

Concerns about being pregnant and eventually giving birth
- the possibility of my labia "koyak-ing" is pretty high and I don't want that
- the possibility of my cup size growing one/two cup size bigger after giving birth is a 50/50 bargain. It might shrink to a smaller cup size after birth (happened to a fellow small breasted friend of mine) and I'm not willing to gamble. It's small enough now. TQVM
- i can't eat a lot of food due to superstition and I enjoy eating so a big NO-NO
- i can't travel as and when I like
- i won't be able to sleep in if there's a child coz there's a thing call feeding time and nurturing. I don't have a single nurturing bone in my body.
- i don't want a mini me. Being me is bad enough.
- i can't even take care of myself, let alone another human being duh...
- i'm contented with my current lifestyle and i don't feel "empty" and have a need to have a child.

So, there you have it. My concerns and being married doesn't mean that you must have kids.


  1. Girls just wanna have fun..Look at my cousin lah 2 anak still kaki lepak,3rd one in the stomach.She doesn't have any family planing..At the end siapa jaga Aunty akulah...Ish Ish

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