Life and Love

I was deeply inspired by what my mom brought up during dinner on last week. (We have a love/hate relationship) Don't get me wrong when I said that, coz most asian kid will experience this with their mom. She's a great mom that cooks extremely well and take good care of us, she's just overprotective.

This time, my younger brother was the victim. She wants to know whether he will find a girl soon and do the right thing. But what is really the right thing ? Just cause everyone feels that they've come to a time to settle down with someone or anyone doesn't mean that everyone have to follow suit.

To me, marriage is a not for everyone. It is something nice to have but not necessary to own. So what if everyone around you are married? Do you have to rush out and grab someone just because ? I beg to differ. There is nothing wrong with just being happy with what you're doing and live the life you want to.

Be it if you are asexual, bisexual or heterosexual. Just be yourself! 

So what if you are married? Are you necessarily happier than others just because your friends are single? What if you marry someone due to peer/family pressure and live a loveless marriage? Does it make it better that others sees you happy on the outside but you are slowly dying inside?

There are so many unanswered questions. Do you want to take the plunge just because ?

Think about it.